|
|
| Author | Message |
|---|
Jocelyn

 Number of posts: 323 Points: 42 Registration date: 2008-05-02
 | Subject: Re: HELP ME OUT PLS!!!! Mon Aug 11, 2008 11:03 pm | |
| |
|
 | |
Traveller

 Number of posts: 1145 Points: 562 Registration date: 2008-04-24
 | Subject: Re: HELP ME OUT PLS!!!! Mon Aug 11, 2008 11:18 pm | |
| Damn! This is a cold world. |
|
 | |
Mai
 Number of posts: 105 Points: 2 Registration date: 2008-04-02
 | Subject: Re: HELP ME OUT PLS!!!! Mon Aug 11, 2008 11:27 pm | |
| | BIG_BOOM wrote: | Okay guys. Seriously, just move on. It may be hard to do, but what choice do you have? Give the dude some credit for at least being honest. Grab some of your friends, and go watch "Sex in the city" or something. Go dancing! Try internet dating. Youjust might meet a nice person.
This is from a guy's perspective. |
I agree, she needs to move on. but as a woman, you just want to get one last jab in. and since i'm "too good" to beg : or refuse to even acknowledge the other woman, he will have to get it. No hitting cuz the guy hits harder than the girl, ,,,, but that itching powder will make him scratch like he has the heebie jeebies. |
|
 | |
candygirl Admin

 Number of posts: 5911 Location: Monrovia, Liberia Say Whatever: Laughter is the best medicine My Mood:  Points: 2226 Registration date: 2008-03-31
 | Subject: Re: HELP ME OUT PLS!!!! Mon Aug 11, 2008 11:34 pm | |
| | Mai wrote: | | BIG_BOOM wrote: | Okay guys. Seriously, just move on. It may be hard to do, but what choice do you have? Give the dude some credit for at least being honest. Grab some of your friends, and go watch "Sex in the city" or something. Go dancing! Try internet dating. Youjust might meet a nice person.
This is from a guy's perspective. |
I agree, she needs to move on. but as a woman, you just want to get one last jab in. and since i'm "too good" to beg : or refuse to even acknowledge the other woman, he will have to get it. No hitting cuz the guy hits harder than the girl, ,,,, but that itching powder will make him scratch like he has the heebie jeebies. |
 _________________ For how can love attain true appreciation if it has never weathered tribulation? ~MHK
|
|
 | |
LadyFlo

 Number of posts: 2224 Location: Decatur, GA Say Whatever: Luv me as I am cuz u can't be me and I can't and don't wanna be u! My Mood:  Points: 213 Registration date: 2008-04-22
 | Subject: Re: HELP ME OUT PLS!!!! Tue Aug 12, 2008 12:53 am | |
| From experience girl, let them go (i know its easier said then done) cuz if you try to hold on to him it'll just turn into one drama after the other. He could have been honest and caring enough to let you know about his new love during those two years before he up and brought her in ur face to make introduction. Maybe a slap or two  would ease the hurt for a few seconds but really... keep on moving girl. |
|
 | |
sunshine
 Number of posts: 83 My Mood:  Points: 0 Registration date: 2008-08-11
 | Subject: Re: HELP ME OUT PLS!!!! Tue Aug 12, 2008 2:58 am | |
| Wahala babe I am really sorry to hear about your pain. I really feel for you.. you are not alone. Don't be afraid to feel the pain. The anger that we all feel at times like that just masks a deeper pain. If you are courageous enough to feel the truth of your pain, you will also discover your LIGHT. You are loved, and love is abundant and actually it is within you.. so you have to look no further....Feeling pain can deepen our capacity to feel other people's pain and joy if we allow it to. It can soften our hearts and invigorate our spirits if we let it. Remember that whatever choice you make right now (as always) has consequences....choosing to be loving even when we are in pain will create a life of love.... choosing to be fearful (of our pain), or to hurt will create that in our lives.
My heart reaches out to you my love. |
|
 | |
DSP

 Number of posts: 940 Points: 1946 Registration date: 2008-04-02
 | Subject: Re: HELP ME OUT PLS!!!! Tue Aug 12, 2008 8:29 am | |
| |
|
 | |
Geyla Queen Admin

 Number of posts: 6440 Age: 34 Location: Atlanta, GA Say Whatever: I'm still holding on. My Mood:  Points: 4298 Registration date: 2008-03-28
 | Subject: Re: HELP ME OUT PLS!!!! Tue Aug 12, 2008 6:24 pm | |
| I think so too D, because there was no point in introducing the two. _________________ The More I Know....The More I Know I Need To Know"
|
|
 | |
|