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PostSubject: my peopel i want live in this country oh.. no more dieting!!   Fri Aug 08, 2008 5:26 pm

Obesity is so revered among Mauritania's white Moor Arab population that the young girls are sometimes force-fed to obtain a weight the government has described as "life-threatening".
A generation ago, over a third of women in the country were force-fed as children - Mauritania is one of the few African countries where, on average, girls receive more food than boys.
Now only around one in 10 girls are treated this way. The treatment has its roots in fat being seen as a sign of wealth - if a girl was thin she was considered poor, and would not be respected.
But in rural Mauritania you still see the rotund women that the country is famous for. They walk slowly, dainty hands on the end of dimpled arms, pinching multicoloured swathes of fabric together to keep the biting sand from their faces.
"I make them eat lots of dates, lots and lots of couscous and other fattening food," Fatematou, a voluminous woman in her sixties who runs a kind of "fat farm" in the northern desert town of Atar, told BBC World Service's The World Today programme.

When they are small they don't understand, but when they grow up they are fat and beautiful


Fatematou
'Fat farm' manager

Although she had no clients when I met her, she said she was soon expecting to take charge of some seven-year-olds.
"I make them eat and eat and eat. And then drink lots and lots of water," she explained.
"I make them do this all morning. Then they have a rest. In the afternoon we start again. We do this three times a day - the morning, the afternoon and the evening."
Punishment
She said the girls could end up weighing between 60 to 100 kilograms, "with lots of layers of fat."

Obesity is seen as a sign a husband cares for his wife

Fatematou said that it was rare for a girl to refuse to eat, and that if they did, she was helped by the child's parents.
"They punish the girls and in the end the girls eat," she said.
"If a girl refuses we start nicely, saying 'come on, come on' sweetly, until she agrees to eat."
Fatematou admitted that sometimes the girls cried at the treatment.
"Of course they cry - they scream," she said.
"We grab them and we force them to eat. If they cry a lot we leave them sometimes for a day or two and then we come back to start again.
"They get used to it in the end."
She argued that in the end the girls were grateful.
"When they are small they don't understand, but when they grow up they are fat and beautiful," she said.
"They are proud and show off their good size to make men dribble. Don't you think that's good?"
Change
However, the view that a fat girl is more desirable is now becoming seen as old-fashioned.
A study by the Mauritanian ministry of health has found that force-feeding is dying out. Now only 11% of young girls are force fed.

We're fed up of fat women


Yusuf, 19

"That's not how people think now," Leila - a woman in the ancient desert town of Chinguetti, who herself was fattened as a child - told The World Today.
"Traditionally a fat wife was a symbol of wealth. Now we've got another vision, another criteria for beauty.
"Young people in Mauritania today, we're not interested in being fat as a symbol of beauty. Today to be beautiful is to be natural, just to eat normally."
Some men are also much less keen on having a fat wife - a reflection of changes in Mauritanian society.
"We're fed up of fat women here," said 19-year-old shop owner Yusuf.
"Always fat women! Now we want thin women.
"In Mauritania if a woman really wants to get married I think she should stay thin. If she gets fat it's not good.
"Some girls have asked me whether they should get fat or stay thin. I tell them if you want to find a man, a European or a Mauritanian, stay thin, it's better for you. But some blokes still like them fat."
And while there still men who like their women big, Fatematou is on hand to fatten them up with her years of experience.
I asked her if she ever felt cruel, beating and force feeding children?
"No! It's not cruel to make girls fat!" she said.
"Me, I've seen 10-year old girls give birth. I tell you, 10 years old!
"Once they are fat and beautiful they can serve their men well, once they are fat they can be married."

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PostSubject: Re: my peopel i want live in this country oh.. no more dieting!!   Fri Aug 08, 2008 5:28 pm

"They punish the girls and in the end the girls eat," she said.
"If a girl refuses we start nicely, saying 'come on, come on' sweetly, until she agrees to eat."
Fatematou admitted that sometimes the girls cried at the treatment.
"Of course they cry - they scream," she said.
"We grab them and we force them to eat. If they cry a lot we leave them sometimes for a day or two and then we come back to start again.


affraid affraid th_wtf

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PostSubject: Re: my peopel i want live in this country oh.. no more dieting!!   Fri Aug 08, 2008 5:30 pm

We're fed up of fat women here," said 19-year-old shop owner Yusuf.
"Always fat women! Now we want thin women. th_ROFLMAO

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PostSubject: Re: my peopel i want live in this country oh.. no more dieting!!   Fri Aug 08, 2008 5:35 pm

candygirl wrote:
We're fed up of fat women here," said 19-year-old shop owner Yusuf.
"Always fat women! Now we want thin women. th_ROFLMAO


Tell Yusuf to go to hell, he want spoil things for people....I coming build my house there...so I can be fat and happy lol!

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PostSubject: Re: my peopel i want live in this country oh.. no more dieting!!   Fri Aug 08, 2008 7:49 pm

we eating couscous tonight o :)
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PostSubject: Re: my peopel i want live in this country oh.. no more dieting!!   Fri Aug 08, 2008 7:52 pm

i will take 200 situps when i get home and 200 jumping jacks Laughing
i finish telling my men i getting home late.. brining wine.. yeppie!!

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PostSubject: Re: my peopel i want live in this country oh.. no more dieting!!   Fri Aug 08, 2008 7:57 pm

krazzy wrote:
we eating couscous tonight o :)


lol!

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PostSubject: Re: my peopel i want live in this country oh.. no more dieting!!   Fri Aug 08, 2008 8:36 pm

I like thin and big(not American big)

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PostSubject: Re: my peopel i want live in this country oh.. no more dieting!!   Fri Aug 08, 2008 10:38 pm

chay!
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PostSubject: Re: my peopel i want live in this country oh.. no more dieting!!   Fri Aug 08, 2008 10:39 pm

krazzy what happen? th_mrgreen

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PostSubject: Re: my peopel i want live in this country oh.. no more dieting!!   Fri Aug 08, 2008 10:43 pm

natin o ma. listening to my brother DSP :) dey naked specs sef can make u scare.
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PostSubject: Re: my peopel i want live in this country oh.. no more dieting!!   Fri Aug 08, 2008 11:27 pm

krazzy wrote:
natin o ma. listening to my brother DSP :) dey naked specs sef can make u scare.


nothing to be scared of.. hahahaha

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PostSubject: Re: my peopel i want live in this country oh.. no more dieting!!   Fri Aug 08, 2008 11:33 pm

what Candy this is good news. I telling my husband we need to move there. I don't need to lose any weight.
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PostSubject: Re: my peopel i want live in this country oh.. no more dieting!!   Fri Aug 08, 2008 11:36 pm

hahah, i know right?

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PostSubject: Re: my peopel i want live in this country oh.. no more dieting!!   Fri Aug 08, 2008 11:41 pm

krazzy wrote:
natin o ma. listening to my brother DSP :) dey naked specs sef can make u scare.


th_mrgreen
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