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candygirl
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| | Subject: IS it wrong to date your sister/brother's... Tue Aug 05, 2008 10:21 pm | |
| ex lover??
say they been parted for years.....
would you date your sister's old boyfriend.. or your brother's old girl?
why or why not???
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LovinLiberia
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| | Subject: Re: IS it wrong to date your sister/brother's... Tue Aug 05, 2008 10:27 pm | |
| Nope, I wouldn't. It would just be too weird to me knowing that this person has had intimate moments with my sister. |
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| | Subject: Re: IS it wrong to date your sister/brother's... Tue Aug 05, 2008 10:31 pm | |
| is it a moral issue??? or people think its bad luck or the scandal???
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| | Subject: Re: IS it wrong to date your sister/brother's... Tue Aug 05, 2008 10:33 pm | |
| Hmmm, for me it would be a combination of many things. Definately add scandal in that mix, then add taboo...you know friends and family's men should be considered off limits, and then add moral into it. Personally, I just couldn't imagine getting myself into that situation. |
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| | Subject: Re: IS it wrong to date your sister/brother's... Tue Aug 05, 2008 10:38 pm | |
| but they no longer date.. and havent for years.. it didnt work out for them.. so that makes him off limits??
this means he/she will be off limits to your close friends too, ehn?
am not saying its right or wrong, yet.. just asking away... hahaha
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LovinLiberia
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| | Subject: Re: IS it wrong to date your sister/brother's... Tue Aug 05, 2008 10:48 pm | |
| Yes, for me... I wouldn't date anyone who has dated my sister. Now, if my close friends want to date one of my exes then that is on them, but I wouldn't knowingly date someone that a close friend of mine has dated. |
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| | Subject: Re: IS it wrong to date your sister/brother's... Tue Aug 05, 2008 10:54 pm | |
| | candygirl wrote: | | is it a moral issue??? or people think its bad luck or the scandal??? |
It's a moral issue with me....and just scandalous.....just like I could never "knowinly" date a man one of my "friends" have dated.
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| | Subject: Re: IS it wrong to date your sister/brother's... Tue Aug 05, 2008 10:55 pm | |
| | LovinLiberia wrote: | | Yes, for me... I wouldn't date anyone who has dated my sister. Now, if my close friends want to date one of my exes then that is on them, but I wouldn't knowingly date someone that a close friend of mine has dated. |
For some reason I would to this object to this too...even if it's my ex.
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| | Subject: Re: IS it wrong to date your sister/brother's... Tue Aug 05, 2008 10:56 pm | |
| It depends on how people perceive things and how they want to live their lives in society. It is not illegal though but it cast doubt on people mind about your activity. There are plenty women or men to chase instead of dating your sister or brother XXX... I am not oblige to engage in it once i know the later... |
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LovinLiberia
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| | Subject: Re: IS it wrong to date your sister/brother's... Tue Aug 05, 2008 11:01 pm | |
| | Geyla Queen wrote: | | LovinLiberia wrote: | | Yes, for me... I wouldn't date anyone who has dated my sister. Now, if my close friends want to date one of my exes then that is on them, but I wouldn't knowingly date someone that a close friend of mine has dated. |
For some reason I would to this object to this too...even if it's my ex. |
I would, too...but if they really wanted to go ahead with it, then I would have to let them since I couldn't force them not to. |
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| | Subject: Re: IS it wrong to date your sister/brother's... Tue Aug 05, 2008 11:04 pm | |
| so if you fell in love with a guy who your older sister had dated many years ago.... you would resist the love cuz da your sister old thing???
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| | Subject: Re: IS it wrong to date your sister/brother's... Tue Aug 05, 2008 11:17 pm | |
| If my brother data Jada Pinkett and then later on she steppe to me, damn what ya'll say...me and Jada will kick it! |
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LovinLiberia
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| | Subject: Re: IS it wrong to date your sister/brother's... Tue Aug 05, 2008 11:19 pm | |
| | candygirl wrote: | | so if you fell in love with a guy who your older sister had dated many years ago.... you would resist the love cuz da your sister old thing??? |
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LovinLiberia
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| | Subject: Re: IS it wrong to date your sister/brother's... Tue Aug 05, 2008 11:19 pm | |
| | Traveller wrote: | | If my brother data Jada Pinkett and then later on she steppe to me, damn what ya'll say...me and Jada will kick it! |
Men.. :  |
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| | Subject: Re: IS it wrong to date your sister/brother's... Tue Aug 05, 2008 11:23 pm | |
| | LovinLiberia wrote: | | Traveller wrote: | | If my brother data Jada Pinkett and then later on she steppe to me, damn what ya'll say...me and Jada will kick it! |
Men.. : |
So if your sister dated Boris Kodjoe and later you started falling ni love with him, you'd deny yourself the love? Me pa, I jeh lek Jada Pinkett business. |
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